Practical guidance · Death at home

What to do when someone dies at home

What happens next depends first on whether the death was expected or sudden and unexpected.

Choose the situation that best describes what has happened below. You will be taken straight to the relevant guidance, including who to call, what happens at night, when a funeral director can become involved and when the coroner may need to take over.

Start here

Which best describes what has happened?

The practical steps are quite different, so choose the route that fits the circumstances.

Not sure which applies? If the person has collapsed unexpectedly, you are unsure whether they have died, or you think emergency treatment may still be possible, call 999 and follow the instructions you are given.

Route 01 · Expected death

When an expected death happens at home

If someone had been receiving end-of-life care and their death was anticipated, the situation does not usually need to be treated as an emergency. The first practical step is to contact the healthcare team and arrange verification of death.

What happens first

What to do after an expected death at home

If there is an end-of-life care plan, there may already be instructions telling you who to contact. Use those first where possible.

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Contact the healthcare team

If the GP practice is open, contact the surgery. If there is a community nursing, hospice-at-home or palliative-care team, use the number they gave you. Outside normal hours, if there is no specific service to call, contact NHS 111.

02

The death is verified

A doctor or appropriately trained healthcare professional will formally confirm that the person has died. This is called verification of death.

03

You can take some time

Once the necessary clinical steps have happened, there is usually no need to rush simply because someone has died. The person can often remain at home for a while if that is what you want.

04

Choose a funeral director when you are ready

You can contact a funeral director before deciding what kind of funeral you want. Once the death has been verified and there is no coroner restriction, the funeral director can arrange the collection from home and transfer the person into their care.

05

The medical cause of death is reviewed

A doctor proposes the medical cause of death. Unless the death needs to be referred to the coroner, an independent Medical Examiner reviews the medical records and proposed cause.

06

Registration happens afterwards

The Medical Examiner process must be completed before the death can be registered. You will be told when the required information has been sent to the registrar.

Expected death · Overnight

What to do when someone dies at home at night

If the death was expected, you do not need to panic because it happened outside normal office hours.

If there is an end-of-life or palliative-care plan, use the out-of-hours contact provided. Otherwise call NHS 111 and explain that an expected death has occurred at home.

A suitable healthcare professional will normally need to verify the death before a funeral director can collect the person who has died and bring them into their care.

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Does someone need to come immediately?

Not necessarily. It may take some time for the appropriate healthcare professional to attend and verify the death. That does not mean anything has gone wrong.

Does a funeral director have to collect during the night?

No. Once the death has been verified, you can discuss whether the collection happens during the night or later. There is often no need for the person who died to leave home simply because it is late.

What should I do while I am waiting?

You do not have to start organising the funeral. Sit with the person if you want to, contact someone you would like with you and follow any instructions given by the healthcare team.

What if I am worried the death was not actually expected?

Call 999. If you are unsure whether the situation should be treated as an expected death, the emergency services can assess what has happened and tell you what to do.

There is no rush

The person who has died does not have to leave home straight away

When an expected death has happened at home and the death has been verified, it can feel as though the next thing you are supposed to do is call a funeral director and have the person taken away.

Often, there is no need to rush.

The person who has died can usually stay at home for a while if that is what you want. You do not have to call a funeral director the moment the death is verified, and you do not have to suddenly turn the room into a place of paperwork and practical arrangements.

This can be a strange and precious period of time. The person has died, but they have not yet left home. The funeral has not begun. The calls, decisions and arrangements that will follow have not quite started yet.

There is a kind of liminal space here: between life and everything that comes after death. You are allowed to inhabit it for a while.

There is no right way to use that time.

01

You might sit quietly with the person who has died.

02

You might light a candle, open a window or change the feeling of the room.

03

You might play music they loved, sing, read something aloud or simply let things be quiet.

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You might call people who would like to come over, sit with them or say goodbye.

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You might make tea, talk, tell stories, cry, laugh or just be together.

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If it is the middle of the night and you are exhausted, you might decide to get some sleep before doing anything else.

You do not need to hurry because a funeral director is waiting. If you call Poetic Endings, we can talk through what has happened and what actually needs to happen next. If there is no reason for an immediate collection, we will tell you that. We can come when you feel ready.

For some people, these few hours become an important part of saying goodbye. Once the person leaves home, something changes. If you want to pause before that happens, you can.

Keep the room reasonably cool and follow any practical advice given by the healthcare professional who verifies the death. Beyond that, this time does not need to be hurried through.

Verification of death

What does verification mean?

Verification of death is the formal confirmation by an appropriately trained healthcare professional that a person has died.

It is not the same thing as establishing the medical cause of death.

Depending on local arrangements, verification may be carried out by a doctor, community nurse, palliative-care nurse or another appropriately trained clinician.

Medical equipment

Leave medical devices in place

If the person had a syringe driver, cannula, catheter or other medical equipment, do not remove it unless a healthcare professional tells you to.

The community nursing or palliative-care team can explain what happens to equipment and unused medication afterwards.

Collection from home

When can a funeral director come?

For an expected death that is not under the coroner’s control, a funeral director can usually arrange the collection once the death has been verified.

You do not normally have to register the death first.

You also do not have to have planned the funeral. Bringing someone into the funeral director’s care and deciding what kind of funeral to arrange are separate things.

Choosing the time

The collection can happen when you are ready

If there is no clinical or other reason for an urgent collection, you can talk to your funeral director about timing.

That might mean later in the evening, during the night, first thing in the morning or after people close to the person have had time to visit.

Your funeral director should help you understand what is practically appropriate rather than creating unnecessary urgency.

Paperwork after an expected death

Medical Examiner and registration

The medical certification process now happens largely between the doctor, Medical Examiner and registrar. You do not usually need to collect a paper medical certificate yourself.

01 / Doctor

Medical cause of death

A doctor proposes the medical cause of death using the medical records and information about what happened.

02 / Medical Examiner

Independent review

Unless the coroner is investigating, an independent Medical Examiner reviews the proposed cause of death and may contact you to explain it or ask whether you have any concerns.

03 / Registrar

Registering the death

Once the Medical Examiner process is complete, the information is sent to the registrar. You will be told when registration can take place.

Route 02 · Sudden or unexpected death

When someone dies unexpectedly at home

If the death was sudden, unexplained or not anticipated, do not arrange for your chosen funeral director to collect the person from the house yourself. Call 999. The emergency services will assess what has happened and the death may be referred to the coroner.

What happens first

Call 999

Tell the call handler what has happened and follow the instructions you are given. If there may still be an opportunity for emergency treatment, the response may include attempts at resuscitation.

While you are waiting

Follow the instructions from the 999 call handler and avoid moving the person or changing the surroundings unless you are told to.

  • Stay with the person unless instructed otherwise.
  • Have GP details available if you can.
  • Have medication information nearby if possible.
  • Do not remove medical equipment.

Police attendance is normal

Police often attend sudden or unexpected deaths at home in London. Their presence does not by itself mean anybody is suspected of wrongdoing.

  • They establish the circumstances of the death.
  • They may speak to people who were present.
  • They provide information to the coroner.
  • The coroner then decides what needs to happen next.
Coroner involvement

What happens if the death is referred to the coroner?

The coroner investigates deaths where the cause is unknown or where the circumstances require an independent investigation.

If the coroner takes responsibility for investigating the death, they may arrange for a funeral director to collect the person from home and take them to a public mortuary.

The coroner then decides whether medical information is enough, whether a post-mortem examination is needed and whether there needs to be an inquest.

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A funeral director may come to the house

The police or coroner may arrange for a funeral director to collect the person who has died and take them to a public mortuary. That funeral director is acting on the coroner’s instructions.

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They are not necessarily your chosen funeral director

The fact that a funeral director collected the person for the coroner does not mean you have appointed them to arrange the funeral. You remain free to choose whichever funeral director you want.

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You can choose a funeral director while the investigation continues

You do not have to wait for the person to be released from the coroner’s care before speaking to or appointing the funeral director you actually want.

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Your chosen funeral director collects after release

Once the coroner authorises release, your chosen funeral director can liaise with the public mortuary, collect the person who has died and bring them into their care.

Public mortuaries

Has the person been taken to a public mortuary?

We are building detailed practical guides to London public mortuaries because the coroner process can otherwise be difficult to understand.

Post-mortem

Does an unexpected death always mean a post-mortem?

No.

The coroner considers the circumstances and available medical information before deciding whether a post-mortem is necessary.

If one is needed, a pathologist examines the person who died to help establish the medical cause of death.

Sometimes further tests, including toxicology, are required before all the results are available.

Inquest

Does an inquest mean the funeral has to wait?

Usually not.

An inquest can take place considerably later. Once the examinations requiring the person who died to remain in the coroner’s care have been completed, the coroner can normally authorise release for burial or cremation.

The investigation can then continue afterwards.

Your choice

You can choose your own funeral director

You do not have to use the funeral director who carried out the initial collection on behalf of the coroner.

You can contact another funeral director, ask questions, request an estimate and appoint them while the coroner’s investigation is still underway.

Your chosen funeral director can then be ready to arrange the collection from the public mortuary as soon as release is authorised.

Planning ahead

You can begin discussing the funeral before release

You can start talking about cremation, burial, natural burial, venues, ceremonies, coffins and costs before the person has been released.

It is sensible not to confirm a funeral date until the likely release timetable is clearer.

Poetic Endings funeral directors at a funeral in London
If you choose Poetic Endings

We can help from wherever you are in the process

Poetic Endings is an independent funeral director based in Forest Hill, arranging funerals throughout London.

If someone has died an expected death at home, you can call us once the death has been verified — or sooner if you simply need help understanding what is going to happen.

Our telephone line is answered 24 hours a day. That does not mean someone has to be collected during the night. Sometimes the most useful thing we can do is explain that there is time.

If the death is being investigated by the coroner, you can still appoint us while that investigation is taking place. We can then liaise with the public mortuary and collect the person once release has been authorised.

You do not need to have decided what kind of funeral you want before getting in touch.

Official information

NHS and government guidance

These official sources explain emergency help, registration and what happens when the coroner becomes involved.

NHS 111

For an expected death outside GP hours where there is no specific palliative-care service to contact.

NHS 111

After a death

Government information about registration, certificates and practical steps following a death.

GOV.UK

When the coroner is involved

Government guidance on coroner investigations, post-mortems, release and inquests.

Coroner guidance
Common questions

Questions about someone dying at home

These answers cover both expected and unexpected deaths at home.

What do you do when someone dies at home?

If the death was expected, contact the GP, community nursing or palliative-care service responsible for the person, or NHS 111 outside normal hours if there is no specific service to call. A healthcare professional will need to verify the death. If the death was sudden or unexpected, call 999.

What should I do when someone dies at home at night?

If the death was expected, follow the out-of-hours instructions in the person’s care plan if there are any. Otherwise contact NHS 111. The death will normally need to be verified before a funeral director can collect the person who has died.

Do funeral directors collect people who die at home at night?

Yes. Funeral directors can arrange collections outside normal office hours. For an expected death, the death will normally need to have been verified first. There is not necessarily any need for the collection to happen immediately.

Does someone who dies at home have to be taken away straight away?

No. After an expected death has been verified, there is often no need for an immediate collection. You may want some time with the person who has died before they leave home.

Can someone who dies at home stay there until the morning?

After an expected death has been verified, it may be possible for the person to remain at home for a while rather than being collected immediately. Keep the room reasonably cool and follow any practical advice given by the healthcare professional who verifies the death.

Can people come to say goodbye before the funeral director arrives?

After an expected death and once the necessary clinical steps have happened, there is often time for people close to the person who died to come to the house if that is what you want.

Do I call 999 if someone dies at home?

Call 999 if the death was sudden or unexpected, if you are unsure whether the person has died, or if emergency treatment may still be possible. If the death was expected as part of planned end-of-life care, use the healthcare contacts you have been given, the GP or NHS 111.

Who verifies a death at home?

A suitably trained healthcare professional confirms that the person has died. Depending on local arrangements, this may be a doctor, community nurse, palliative-care nurse or another appropriately trained clinician.

Can a funeral director collect someone before the death is registered?

Yes. For an expected death that is not under the coroner’s control, a funeral director can usually collect the person after verification. Registration happens afterwards.

Who collects someone who dies unexpectedly at home?

If the coroner takes responsibility for investigating the death, the police or coroner may arrange for a funeral director to collect the person and take them to a public mortuary. That funeral director is acting for the coroner and does not automatically become your chosen funeral director.

Why do police come when someone dies at home?

Police attendance is normal after many sudden or unexpected deaths. Their role is to establish the circumstances and provide information to the coroner. Their presence does not by itself mean anyone is suspected of wrongdoing.

Do I have to use the funeral director who collected someone for the coroner?

No. A funeral director carrying out a collection for the coroner is acting on the coroner’s instructions. You remain free to choose whichever funeral director you want to arrange the funeral.

Does an unexpected death automatically mean a post-mortem?

No. The coroner reviews the circumstances and available medical information before deciding whether a post-mortem is necessary.

Does an inquest mean the funeral has to wait?

Usually not. Once the examinations requiring the person to remain in the coroner’s care have been completed, the coroner can normally authorise release for burial or cremation.

Can I choose a funeral director before the Medical Examiner or coroner finishes?

Yes. You can speak to and appoint a funeral director before the Medical Examiner process, registration or coroner investigation has finished.

Can Poetic Endings collect someone who has died at home?

Yes. We arrange collections from homes throughout London. For an expected death, once the death has been verified and no coroner restriction applies, we can arrange to bring the person who died into our care at our Forest Hill funeral home.

Can I call Poetic Endings during the night?

Yes. Our telephone line is answered 24 hours a day on 020 4525 8318. You can call if you need help understanding what happens next, even if you have not decided whether you would like us to arrange the funeral.