in loving memory of
Garry Thomas Owen/Tom Gilling
25 JULY 1975 – 23 SEPTEMBER 2025
Garry/Tom passed away peacefully in Lewisham Hospital on Tuesday 23rd September 2025. We weren’t ready to lose him and will miss him so much.
His funeral will take place at Honor Oak Crematorium (Brockley Way, SE4 2LJ) on Thursday 23rd October 2025 at 1:00 PM.
If you are driving, please park your cars in the crematorium car park or on the surrounding roads and then gather in front of the entrance gates on Brockley Way by 12:45 PM, ready to follow his hearse in procession up the driveway.
The service will be livestreamed for those who are unable to attend (details below).
Wake
After the funeral, we’ll gather at The Crofton Park Tavern to raise a glass or two to Tom.
Dress Code
Anything goes!
Thanks
Please accept our most sincere thanks for your kind words. We have been so comforted by the outpouring of love and support over the last few weeks.
Details for the funeral livestream
Website: watch.obitus.com
Username: ziwi2253
Password: 268997
Please note – no livestream details will be emailed to you. You’ll need to refer back to this page on the day of the funeral. In advance of the service, we recommend you log in to the Obitus website to test your internet connection. Obitus will make the service available to watch again two to three working days after the service using the same link and password. It will be online for a further 28 days.
At no point will you be asked for any payment details to access the livestream.
RSVP
Please RSVP using the form below so Tom’s family know if you’ll be attending the funeral and/or the wake, or watching the funeral via the livestream.
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